Musings

Why I joined the Etsy Strike

Hi! I'm closing my Etsy shop from April 11th to April 18th in response to Etsy's rising fees and anti-creator policies, and in solidarity with othe...

Welcome to the Grief Club: Reflections on writing about grief

In 2016, my partner, Nap, died unexpectedly when we were both twenty-eight. He was the first person I loved who died, and I was one of only a few p...

Welcome to the Grief Club Pub Day!

Today is the Welcome to the Grief Club Pub Day (publishing day), which means it is officially out on bookshelves wherever books are sold! This is ...

Why Book Pre-orders Matter

Hi friends,There's only ONE more week until Welcome to the Grief Club is out on bookshelves! I can't believe that what has existed for years as ide...

Intentions for 2022

Hi all, As we head into 2022, I’ve been thinking about what I want to do this year, as well as how I want to be. And I've been struggling with the ...

Kwohtations tips on how to track your USPS packages

Tips on what to do about delayed or missing packages

Hi all, The U.S. Postal Service (USPS) and all shipping carriers are experiencing heavy, unprecedented delays in delivering packages this year, gi...

When the holidays are hard

Some ideas for what to do on hard days, and how to support someone who is going through a tough time.

Holiday shopping in 2021: 4 reasons why you should shop early

1. SHIPPING DELAYS! We're still in a global pandemic, and USPS and all other carriers are facing staffing shortages combined with high order volume...

A reminder and reason to shop early and shop small this holiday season

love (and grief) in the time of corona

Today marks exactly four years since Nap died. It feels like I’ve been straddling two parallel universes since - the one in which I am a happy, w...

Why I Shop Small

Hi all, Holiday season is coming up, which means that many of us are faced with the annual question of who to buy presents for, what to get them, ...

Whichever way you're going, you're already on the right path

Graduation season is almost upon us, which is such a wonderful time of celebration and transition (and, if I remember correctly, perhaps also some ...